The dark side of #metoo – the toxic feminism #WeToo
#metoo… a synonym for stand up, fight back, stop being silent and speak up. Launching this campaign is right and important. I would like to clarify that at this point. There is nothing worse than violence against people, especially domestic violence, sexual assault against one’s life partner or spouse. OK…. You surely realize where the journey is going, as I am in no way talking about women or men. I am deliberately not doing this because violence exists against both men but also women, but with one important difference Women learn in this case to be loud, not to hide and to draw attention to it. And the men, well… what can I say.
Toxic masculinity. I hate to use feminist terms for something, but in this case this is exactly the right word and the most authentic one there is. In the upbringing of previous generations, unfortunately, the mistake was made to raise boys in such a way that they would not show any suffering, fear, anxiety or emotions. It was always said, Be a man…. Men don’t cry, men don’t show emotions, What a bullshit. As a result, few men and rarely report domestic violence or sexual assault and rape. Why Because of a false sense of shame, false guilt and fear of not being taken seriously or laughed at.
But what does the title have to do with this video
Well, I’m getting to that now.
Lately, we keep getting through the media how often men are falsely accused of sexual abuse, rape or domestic violence and how quickly men are prejudged without hearing their side of the story, letting them have their say and giving them the opportunity to defend themselves. Men are automatically seen as perpetrators and are caned in court without hesitation or judgment. Careers are ruined and existence destroyed.
Is this the right way to deal with people, well, I don’t think so. Before I moved to Washington a few months ago, I lived in Germany. And yes… I am German with an American heart. I always wanted to live here. OK, I don’t want to digress too much.
Germany has it just as bad with toxic feminism as we do here in the US. The smaller the minorities, the louder and more annoying they are. I have seen so many times from my professional experience how women who have separated from their husbands or have been abandoned try to get even by claiming to have been abused, beaten or oppressed, where it turned out afterwards that the women were lying. Aggrieved women who have been abandoned or betrayed are real bitches and avenging angels. It’s okay to say that. But the most recent example here in the US is Jonny and Amber. Amber was proven beyond a shadow of a doubt by witnesses and expert testimony that she lied, and yet there are radical feminists who claim that Jonny only won the case because he is a man. Wow… the absolute killer argument. Really.
For feminists, it’s always the patriarchy that they use as a surefire argument, even though it’s absolute garbage.
Such a case happened to me, too. If it were not so serious and sad, one could laugh about it. My case was years ago. I already knew my colleague from law school. She was also a real snake in the university, who always stood out with intrigues and lies. By chance, we ended up in the same law firm. She by classic application, I by connections, because the owner of the law firm was the partner of my father. When it came to who would become junior partner, we both applied, but I got the position.
So… now some of you will say that I was chosen because I was white, male and on top of that preferred by my boss. Sorry, now I have to disappoint you. For my boss there is no friendship, no bonus from the father, but only the performance. I won more cases, got more degrees, and excelled in my performance as a lawyer. If her performance had been better, she would have gotten the job and I would have waited…
Well, then something happened that I never expected. Honestly… in my deepest dreams, I would have ever thought that someone would accuse me of being sexually assaulted.
When I came into the office after a court hearing, my colleague was sitting in her office with our women’s representative, crying bitter crocodile tears. She told her what I was supposed to have done … The emphasis is on having done and not having done. Keep that in mind, because the punch line is coming. I don’t want to spoil it, or it will get boring.
My boss also had no idea what it was about and was called into the meeting room after their conversation with me and my Dad.
What I heard there was cinematic. There should be an Oscar for best acting performance for that. She told me that I had been pressuring her and trying to persuade her to sleep with me, and that she would have advantages as a result. She said I wanted to grope her and much more. Simply disgusting, this bitch.
Why do you think neither my dad nor my boss believed her, and why everyone in the room believed me as soon as I said: “Sorry, but she’s lying”. What do you think?
Well, the answer won’t surprise some, others will guess and for the uninformed: I am gay. I’m as gay as a post, and I came out at the age of 16. I can do as much with women sexually or relationship-wise as I can with an atomic bomb. So nothing. I live openly gay, but I don’t peddle it, and it doesn’t show. I am the favorite of every mother-in-law and completely masculine. Whoever asks me, gets told, but I don’t push it on anyone. Why should I? Sexuality is a private matter. But the silly goose didn’t know. Well… You can guess the end of the story. She was fired without notice and couldn’t get a job at any law firm in our state.
Why did I tell you my personal story? Well, I want you to start listening carefully when such suspicions are expressed. I want you to question what is said and not immediately convict and canceled the accused. Condemning someone without evidence or ruining their existence is the worst thing that can happen to a person. I was lucky that the stupid goose did not know about my sexual orientation and the lie was immediately exposed. Other people, especially men, unfortunately do not have this luck. When feminists go into a rage and unleash a shit storm on you, it’s hard to defend yourself from the start. You will, as many cases show, not even have peace when you have proven your innocence beyond doubt. The bitter aftertaste of “It could be, but he’s a man and that’s why he won” will always haunt you if you are heterosexual and a woman makes the accusation.
What happens in most cases when a man has been abused, when he has been a victim of domestic violence or even raped by a woman? What do you think? The man will not be believed, or at least not immediately. I mean come on, how can you rape a man and if he didn’t have fun, why did he have an erection? It’s called a fear erection. The man can’t control it. The phenomenon has been known for a long time, but is ignored by police and investigators out of ignorance.
When did the world descend into the madness that only women can be victims and men always lie? When did the world start to believe that women would never lie and invent such ugly things out of envy or revenge? America wake up! It is uncomfortable to hear the truth and deal with issues that do not suit your emotional state. Conflict issues are sensitive matters, but they must be mentioned. Anyone can be a victim. Therefore, believing only feminists or paying too much attention to them can be dangerous, as you can see. Once again, feminism is right and important. But when it becomes radical and toxic, these people should be ignorant, and no attention should be paid to them.
See ya next Time
